Minded children are young

 Small Light 5 years, both in the nursery or the neighborhood, we praise him is a well-behaved, obedient boy. At home, adults let him do what he do, let him how to do it, how he was doing, performed very good; and children to play with, the little light will always do things by others, obedience, leading people, very few have their own ideas.
However, recently, a small bright learned from kindergarten parents have a small light Disadvantages: When the teacher to teach a method of solving problems, he will not try another approach. It makes my parents very worried about the small light.
analysis:
Certainly a child obedient, well-behaved parents can save a lot of strength, and do not worry about him and the kids have trouble on the outside. But if the child shows too submissive, everything is not assertive, always imitate others, it is not a good phenomenon, which is the health of children in the future development of personality is detrimental.
weak-minded children for three main reasons: first, the children like to imitate and easy to follow blindly. Second, parents and teachers has always been the authority of the child in mind, along with ideas for their children that some parents are accustomed to everything, so easy to cause the child obedience, not dry or even dare to think against the wishes of parents or teachers do. Third, some parents are too busy, lack of communication between the children and do not understand the children, often resulting in the child's fear, dare not say and dare not do what you want.
strategy:
let the children decide
What toys. say , the parents said: adult or child, there may be wrong. the child aware of this, they will not blindly follow others, imitating someone else.
families and children do together puzzles
parents can find a theme or problem, let the children think answers to a variety of ways. If the monkey accidentally fell into the hunter to catch the big bad wolf trap designed, and it how to do it? in what circumstances thirsty? prompt children to divergent thinking, and make a variety of methods to solve the problem.
Tips:
playing games, parents should pay attention: Do not indiscriminate accusations and criticism; children answer the more strange the more fresh and better; the number the better; think The more practical way possible. This enables the children to realize that the way to solve the problem are varied, their original, there are many good ideas. This will not only enhance children's self-confidence, but also can improve the child's own opinion. (Man / Li Honglin)